Today is an important day! After long evenings at the computer, busy phone conversations, and constant exchange of letters, the excited man is racking his brain over great first date ideas. He already saw her picture, but in the photo, people often look very different than in real life. Maybe their conversations were so exciting just because both felt more confident on the Internet. The first date will make everything clear.
Regardless of the circumstances of your meeting, the first date is always associated with considerable excitement for both participants.
How to ask a Russian girl out on a date?
Lay the groundwork
In order to ask a girl on a date, you should find the right girl among many others. Decide if you are ready to spend your time, what result and what kind of experience you want to get from this relationship. Be honest with yourself because it is your purpose that sets up your mood and shows the future direction. It will be useful to find some information about Russian girls dating in order to lay the groundwork for the future conversations. Believe, it is very easy to fall in love with a Russian beauty.
During your conversations, try to find out as much information as you can – about her interests, hobbies, food tastes, and flower preferences, and one more thing that will not do any harm – ask about her allergies. It is normal to ask questions and be interested in other person’s life at the first stages of a relationship. This information will help you generate some first date ideas and arrange a really great date for both of you without any unexpected and unpleasant moments. And if you are going to ask her on a real date, it would be better to plan the date and be prepared for several rounds of talk. Choose the perfect moment for asking the girl out – both of you should be ready. Pick the appropriate location where you will feel comfortable and relaxed – this is a foundation for an easy-going talk.
Choose the right place
You can reflect on the best place for the first day for hours. What would be better? Museum? Park? Cinema or theater? And if you don’t have particular desires and you don’t know the right variant, choose the classic meeting place – some nice café or restaurant. A cute place with nice interior, lovely music, and with fewer visitors will help create the most romantic atmosphere of this important day.
In recent years, small cozy restaurants have appeared not only in almost every city but also in many rural settlements. You will surely have a lot of options to choose from. In order to fight your nervousness, choose some familiar place. It will help you relax and feel at ease.
Think about flowers
One of the good first date ideas is to bring her a present, gaining her favor from the very beginning. If you don’t know what to bring her as a present, just buy a bouquet of beautiful flowers. You will show your attention and make a romantic start. It can be just roses or tulips, but if you want to impress her, think about some interesting variants, for example, a mix of different sorts of flowers. Don’t make an expensive gift – it’s not appropriate for a first meeting, so don’t put your lady in an awkward situation. A nice bouquet works as good if not better.
Don’t forget about your attire
If you are going to date a Russian girl, don’t forget about your appearance. This lady is not only good-looking herself, but she also pays her attention to her date’s outfit. Try to look stylish and tidy in some well-fitting outfit. You don’t need to wear clothes of a prestigious brand in order to impress her, but your image should be complete and really good-looking. If you are not sure about your taste in clothes, you can ask a consultant in some good clothing store or your female friends for help. The main thing in your outfit is your inner feeling, you should feel comfortable in your clothing. One more thing that will make your look complete is a good perfume. A pleasant scent is a half of success of your image.
Demonstrate good manners
Good manners are not less important than a good outfit for Russian women. Such girls are very feminine and they appreciate intelligent men. Don’t forget to open the door for her and help her with her outerwear. And one of the most important moments: watch your mouth expressing your thoughts. A good conversation is a surefire way to win her heart and get a second date.
When you sit at the table, it is better to sit across from each other in order to give the girl a necessary personal space. If you sit too close, she may feel uncomfortable.
Be confident
Your posture, facial expressions, and gestures determine how you are perceived by your lady. Healthy self-confidence is the key to success in many life spheres. A self-confident but not arrogant man makes an impression of an attractive, successful, and handsome person. Therefore, first date advice will sound like, “you should avoid giving the impression of a timid or arrogant person”.
Shyness can also be perceived as a lack of interest, so you should try to disguise it when you date a Russian woman. The other extreme is arrogance. Many people hide fear or insecurity behind their arrogance. But from the outside, it's hard to understand what is really going on inside you.
Talk about things
Don’t be nervous if you don’t know what to talk about on a first date. It is normal. Only a small part of people has the skills of effective communication and can find topics for a talk with any person and absolutely in any situation. However, even such "supermen" sometimes get at a loss for words talking to a beautiful girl, and their excitement and fear of spoiling everything only make the situation worse.
What to do on a first date? What can you do to prevent such trouble as an awkward silence or get rid of absolutely inappropriate phrases, jokes, and gestures? In order not to be nervous during your first date, it is most reasonable to prepare for the meeting in advance, in particular, to think what you will talk about and how you’ll get the girl interested in you. After all, preparation is the best way to overcome anxiety!
But make sure you are not the one who talks. If everything goes smoothly, you will get more opportunities to tell the stories in their full size. Don’t forget about asking the questions and really listen to your lady showing your interest in her. Your conversation should be light-hearted and pleasant for both of you and arouse the desire to continue your date.
Offer to pay
The majority of women will offer to pay for their part of the bill. Be a gentleman and insist on paying for her. And if she insists on paying herself, suggest her picking up the tab on your next date, if she wants to.
Walk a bit
If your dinner was excellent and both of you want to spend a little bit more time together, take a walk to the nearest park. It’s very romantic to explore the paths walking hand in hand and it makes a perfect occasion and appropriate moment to kiss on the first date if your lady doesn’t mind that. Do that gently giving the girl a chance to make a step back just in case. If she doesn’t make any movements back, continue with a kiss. It’s up to you two how your first date will end and whether you’ll have sex on the first date or not.
Have a great first date and enjoy each other!
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