How to Tell a Russian Girl You Love Her

Revealing your feelings and demonstrating your appreciation is not that easy. However, you may approach this problem with a great amount of creativity and it will no longer be an obstacle. We really hope our list will help you overcome your shyness! We will talk about some simple (and not that simple) ways to tell a Russian girl you adore her. By “telling”, we mean demonstrating your feelings in a great multiplicity of ways. Dive in!

1. An actual letter in an envelope

Yes, in the era of the Internet and smartphones, envelopes and paper letters seem outdated and archaic. However, Russian girls have another point of view (in fact, Russian literature created some of the most tragic and romantic epistolary novels as Poor Folk by Fyodor Dostoyevsky). A paper letter can become your first step towards a lifetime-long and beautiful relationship. When a girl gets a letter, it means that you wrote it by your hand, put it in an envelope (you can apply some perfume of yours to enhance the effect) and send it by post. It might sound meaningless but it, for sure, makes much sense for a girl’s heart (while SMS and emails mean much less or even nothing).

2. Candlelit dinner

Ah, what could be better than a dinner with a warm atmosphere, delicious meals, and tasteful wine? Nothing, we agree. Since we are talking not about a proposal, you may take it easier. However, it should still be magical. You may add flowers as a gift, romantic music (every girl dreamt of a string quintet playing during a romantic dinner). You should also think of a place – it ought to be rather intimate, with soft lighting and moody atmosphere. And it should not be too crowded! In the end, that’s the less risky option of all.

3. Romantic runaway

Why don’t you take your Russian girl out for a romantic weekend in a spa hotel? You may also take long night ride in a car, stop to take some junk food, find a place where you can feel alone, gaze at the stars, and reveal your feelings. The main point of a runaway is to actually get as far as you can from your daily routine and refresh your mind. A beautiful weekend at the beach is always a great idea – and if you demonstrate your love and appreciation, it will make your runaway unforgettable.

4. A romantic quest

Russian girls love games! A romantic quest is a great idea for a playful and cheerful girl. For example, you can suddenly disappear and turn off your phone. But beforehand, you leave her a note that indicates the way (literally or figuratively) to find you. It should not be too hard or prolonged. In the end, when she finds you, you meet her with hundreds of balloons and flowers – and just tell her how much you adore her. Russian girls really love beautiful and romantic surprises, and such a gesture can make her extremely happy.

However, there might be some concerns related to revealing your deep feelings, for instance:

• Are you sure she has the same feelings? You need to do your best to understand if she is on the same page with you about your feelings. It can make her really sad and anxious if you show your feelings when she’s not yet ready;
   
• Isn’t it too soon? Russian girls don’t like sweet talkers. Therefore, if you were together for weeks or two to three months, it might be too soon to talk about serious feelings. Otherwise, your confession may sound artificial and meaningless, which is obvious for Slavic women;
   
• Are you assured you are in love? Sometimes (especially when you are young) our feelings seem much bigger and deeper than they really are. Give yourself some time to understand if it’s really so and you want to spend your life with this woman. Don’t ever rush!